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Control What You Can Control (Leave the rest alone!)

 

 

I have tons of ideas swirling around in my head daily, so when I blog, I like to schedule out my posts so that my thoughts are clear, and each post has a distinct message or take away.

 

As I sat down to plan my future posts, I looked back at what I had planned for the past two weeks. Due to my father’s illness, trying to provide a better solution for the situation, maintaining my job and clients, the content was never published.

 

Rightfully so.

 

I was overwhelmed and confused.

 

During these situations, I tend to bang my head against a wall instead of pushing off, and going on my way.

 

As I reviewed the topics I planned to touch on in each social media area, I was reminded that these are topics I NEED to PERSONALLY work on each day. I decided to share them in one post because if you do not address the things that is out of alignment, you will end up with a myriad of issues

 

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  1. You must win the small daily battles, if you want to win the war.

This takes consistency, commitment, a strong foundation in your core values and an even stronger sense of why you went to war in the first place. One thing most people don’t know about me is that I have been battling since taking my first breath. I was 4.5 pounds; my head was growing at a more rapid rate than my body and I spent a lot of time in the hospital during the first few months of my life. I am no stranger to a challenge, and if I truly believe in something, I will stand for what I believe in.

 

If you are going to take a stand, victory will not come over night. It is going to take a lot of work. How much work are you willing to put in daily.

 

 

 

  1. You must be courageous to have delayed gratification.

It takes a lot of courage to trust your gut and follow your heart. It is easy to give up, give in, and throw in the towel. Instant gratification rarely exists, and if you come across it, it will not last. If you want long term results, you should be committed to going the long way.

 

Doing so will require a lot of twists and turns. How many turns are you willing to take to get what it is you want?

 

The answer should be all of them.

 

  1. We cannot control everything, but we can control how we respond to those things that are out of our control.

 

We can’t control the weather, traffic, or other people.  We can however, control our thoughts, actions, and attitude. I always tell my clients to control the controllable. Don’t get caught up in the other variables that consume our energy. When you focus on daily habits and rituals, the success will come. In life, if you focus on you, your journey and your core values your energy will vibrate at a higher level. And remember, what other people are doing or thinking is none of your business!

 

 

  1. “Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.” 
    ― Thich Nhat Hanh

 

I am a terrible breather. No joke, I am a shallow breather which not only affects me physically but also mentally. It is hard for me to sit, take a deep breath, and exhale slowly. It is foreign to me and something I need to practice but often put off doing. Later this month I will go into the physical effects shallow breathing has on your body, but today I am focusing on the mental benefits of taking deep breaths.

 

When we are angry, overwhelmed, lost and stressed it is easy to react instead of acting with intention. The former is where we relinquish control of our thoughts and actions, the latter is the state in which we can course correct and act. Taking a few moments to participate in active breathing will help calm our nerves, take us out of the fight or flight mode, and allow us to think, and then act with a clear mind.

 

Try this deep breathing exercise next time you feel overwhelmed or angry:

 

To start, inhale for a count of four, hold for four, then exhale for a count of four (all through the nose, which adds a natural resistance to the breath).

 

Looking for more advanced? Build up to 6, 8 or even 10 counts!

Wishing you a Healthier Ever After

~ Tiffany G

Moving On. Moving Up.

Where have I been, what the heck have I been doing???

I have been off the grid.

 

I have been quiet on social media. I haven’t sent out a newsletter or updated my blog in quite some time. Because of this, many people immediately thought that something BAD happened to my father, but in reality, I was taking on a GREAT opportunity.

 

I was offered a position that will allow growth, stability, a chance to be a part of a team and to continue to develop my leadership skills.

 

To be offered a position like this, at this point in my life, has reassured me that I am on the right path, and has reminded me that I do have the power to make an IMPACT in this world. More specifically, the Health and Wellness industry.

 

It has been chaotic yet calming, intense but fun, rewarding and filled with sacrifice.

 

Over the past 6 weeks, I have felt safe but scared, at home but completely uncomfortable. It is like I know this, but yet I know nothing at all. I have felt grounded, but often I can’t even find my footing.

 

Despite all these feelings, this is a shift I needed and was ready to embrace.

 

As I was settling into theses feelings, and becoming one with them, I found out that I again had to move. This would mark my 5th move in 11 months. This stirred up more bitter emotions. Because I have constantly had to defend and protect myself, I haven’t been able to truly cope with many of the things that have transpired this past year.

 

It was a tough few days when I found out the news. There were feelings of doubt, wondering if it is even worth staying in the SF Bay Area, questioning why I always seem to be getting knocked down just as things were ramping up.

 

 

After a few days of being lost in my thoughts, the little “Pistol” that is inside of me rose up. I was determined to make seize this change since with every change, there is an opportunity to improve.

 

And that is just what I did.

 

I have received amazing praise at work. I am surrounded by many old friends and have already made new ones. The environment is so positive it can be overwhelming, but I am grateful surrounded by happy and positive people that want to see you succeed on a daily basis.

 

My house that I successfully moved into this weekend is absolutely stunning. It is located in the hills and surrounded by gorgeous hiking trails.

 

With each move, my living situation continues to improve.

 

With each career opportunity, I become more solidified in my mission and purpose.

 

With each big change, I become more deeply rooted in my core values and what is truly important to me.

 

 

As I settle into all of my new surroundings, I look forward to continuing to share my journey and lessons learned.

Wishing you a Healthier Ever After.

 

X ~ Tiffany G.