“If you are not in the arena also getting your ass kicked, I am not interested in your feedback.”
~ Brene Brown
March Madness is well underway, and over the past few days, the majority of my time has been spent watching these young athletes compete. Many of them have not been on national television before. Most of them will have to take tests on the road, write papers for their class while on a plane, and yet they still have to focus on the task at hand…winning basketball games.
These teams are ranked by what they have accomplished in their season, and reputation also plays a big part in determining the brackets. However, I always feel like the tournament is the start of a new season. Once brackets are said and done, everyone starts 0-0, with one loss sending them home.
But no regular season record, statistics, or bracketology can predict is the heart and determination the men and women exuded once the ball is up. Each player has a story. They have their own purpose, something to prove, to overcome, and they use that as motivation to work with their friends/classmates/teammates to play their best game as a team and to leave it all out on the court.
Much of what runs deep in these athletes goes unspoken. But there is a common bond and respect each athlete has towards each other and each team. No questions. No judgment. Just hard work, sweat, and high regard for one another.
Imagined if we lived each day like these athletes do. Each day is a fresh start, clean slate, and your record is 0-0. You have the ability to start fresh and go after what you want despite any setbacks that may have happened before. You may be facing and opponent (time), or an obstacle (food choices), but with heart, and determination, you have the ability to overcome and rise above.
Visualize what it will look and feel like if you lived every day committed to your WHY. Your WHY is what runs deep and has given birth to your goals. What if everyone did that? It would be impossible not to respect someone else’s journey. There would be no comparison (magazines, social media, gossip), feelings of guilt (time spent feeling selfish), and the world would be a whole lot healthier and happier.
This week, focus on why you are on YOUR journey. What it means to you and give it your all each and every day.
~ Tiffany G.